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Getting to know each other “Heart-to-Heart”

Engaged couple in park.
Couple on the path of true love.

Modern courtship is really a part of the human mating process whereby two people meet with the aim of each assessing the other’s suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or marriage.

The protocols and practices of courtship vary considerably from country to country and over time. The most common idea is that two people trying out a relationship and exploring whether they are suitable in terms of personality, eros, liking, family, expectations and goals for the future, etc. This period of courtship is seen as a precursor to engagement or marriage.

Please note that suitability and compatibility are not the same. Most common dating sites advocate for compatibility, as if they or anyone knows what that means.

Courtship, as advocated by True Love Singles, prompts the two people to first get to know each other “heart-to-heart” without the pressures of physical intimacy or erotic emotions clouding their view. For a good while, sexuality might best be left to the imagination. It is already a delicate affair for two Singles to just come to like and appreciate each other as sort of friends.

The vagaries of love often seem incomprehensible, there really is no need to hurry.

It also is good to read up on the three elements of love and the seven types of love, as explained by psychologist Robert Steinberg. Truly relevant also seems to be Attachment Theory for Adults. These concepts are great topics to talk about in the later stages of courtship.

A few Tips regarding Modern Courtship

Going with a dating site like this one should only be one of many venues for a Single to strike out. Do not get stuck or lost in a dating site, including this one, thinking you’ve now done all that could be done to finding your partner.

Looking at pictures and reading profiles goes only so far. It is best as a means to initially exclude the most undesirable prospective Singles, rather than to include a few.

Meet as early as you can with prospective Singles. Spent face-to-face time with the other Single sooner than later, before making up your mind if he or she could possibly be Mr. Right or Ms. Perfect.

Courtship as a time-tested Strategy

CourtshipWe believe that relationships last when they are build on the foundation of what is quaintly known as matters of the heart. To give the bond of love a chance to first grow and proof itself during a period of courtship and engagement is a time-tested strategy that promotes well-being.

Because each individual, family, and other sets of circumstances is unique, each courtship and engagement will be unique. While those who choose courtship and engagement may hold the same general guidelines for the relationship, their specific choices about when, where, and how to court, engage and marry may differ according to their needs, traditions and circumstances.

So, we are not prepared to offer much advise in regard to the commitment decision,marriage and whatever follows – that would be past the scope of this site. People have published plenty about these topics for ages, they always will. This site just likes to help Singles understand love a little better and offer them another venue for finding a promising significant other.

International Singles

The benefit of an international courtship site is that the pool of eligible partners is large. With the incredible reach of the Internet and travel so common, a female single need not settle for “Mr. Right Now” from her local community. Instead she might find “Mr. Right,” a person matching her talents, passions and ambitions, in another city, country, or even continent.

A fine courtship site that serve cultures where arranged marriages are the norm gives singles a greater chance to participate in the process of finding a family-approved mate, and an alternative to relying on family and friends as matchmakers.

The United States has many ethnic and racial groups, and interracial marriage is fairly common among most of them. Interracial marriages increased from 2% of married couples in 1970 to 7% in 2005 and 8.4% in 2010. Even the number of international marriages in the United States is on the increase. In 2010 there were over five million marriages performed where one of the spouses originated from a different country. The K-1 US visa is available to people who want their fiancé to be granted entry to the country.

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