Tune into the Meaning of Love to make it True for You

Having an insider track on how love works (or not) will make you better off. Too many folks get blindsided by the sweet power of love and by casanovas and femme fatales going about having it their way. Do not fall for the many easy lures and get trapped. Singles like you will benefit from solid information; they acquire proven dating skills and develop an attraction plan to find the right mate — the One.

Yes — love is a real and meaningful phenomenon. While love is “what makes the world go ’round,’ it is actually hard to put in words what people mean by love. 

Love, as a noun, might be that “wholly intoxicating and unfathomable feeling of deep and intense affection and esteem for another.” Love, as a verb, “behaves” and “acts” accordingly – so as to lastingly manifest that special affection and esteem for the other.

While “being in love” shows unmistakenly in a lover’s behavior and is hard to fake, “loving actions” are rather ambiguous as their motivation and intent is necessarily veiled. That makes love – as a noun and in spite of its vagaries – so significant.

Do people, like you or me or anyone else, deserve love? Yes, yes, and yes. However, one may be really “in love” only for a fleeting moment, while in a short affair, or during a brief episode in life. It is not true love yet. It isn’t even real love. Fortunately, the initial high intensity of “being in love” seems to level out over time. That is, life’s catching up with lovers.

Real love then is when two people are “being in love” with another, and yet grounded as a pair, and “behave and act lovingly” towards one another in virtuosity. Coming together to share identity and seeing the world from a new perspective, they then may wholly embrace the vagaries of love and vicissitudes of life. Their experience includes the seeming opposites of “great sex” as well as “living for the sake of the other.”

True love, after all, is best understood in the context of that meaningful path we walk together in real love with our mate – the path of true love. In other words, it refers to converging approaches each has decided on to attain and maintain their exclusive relationship – the true love approach.

True love, we would say, is therefore that lasting experience of a mutually loving relationship! As such, true love is an ongoing work of art, it is not a frivolous miracle, or dismissable as a mere mirage. There you have it, our meaning of true love, in a nutshell…

Talk to real people, and you will be surprised to learn how many couples strike a chord with each other in spite of not being particularly “compatible” at the outset. They may thrive celebrating their differences instead of trying to merge into one or even warring each other! Honestly, do you know what – in the end – will tickle your fancy regarding the One? So, that is why second and third impressions and modern courtship are so important.

The meaning of love, that is loving relationships, maybe experienced when two singles come to encounter and desire each other with a passion unfettered by convenience or calculation. And when each finds the other enchanting enough to be able to surrender to him or her, again and again. And when each knows that the other has his or her back through thick and thin and over the ups and downs on the path of life.

When is it then love, or only liking, or little more than contempt? Is a particular, episodic, or lasting, experience of an intimate relationship significant enough to be called love? The lovers must decide, always. There is no public yardstick for love.

Yes, there is more to it, a whole lot more, but we cannot cram it all into this one page… Hope you’ve got the larger picture, though.

So, get out of your comfort zone, put your heart at risk, and give love a chance! True love, then, will bring eternity down to earth for the two of you. Now go find that promising single, kindle an initial fire called romantic love, engage in modern courtship, and together reach for true love.