Love makes the world go 'round. But what is love and loving? Delightful feelings and genuine care for each other and for the relationship itself. 

Transpersonal feelings, those as in 'love is in the air,' must be nourished by both partners if to last.

Join one or several dating groups of interest to you. Introduce yourself with an interesting line about yourself in each group. Really, use your imagination and say something cool about life and love.

Sound intriguing, anything but boring. Then see who responds to you.

To get and stay in the loop, follow the flow of chatter on this site and even chime in. Ask questions, respond to other's questions, and make a noise.

Really, folks sitting quietly on the sidelines will not get much noticed by curious others.

Visit the members directory and run a filter, lets say a filter on all females and/or all Gen X. Then send a Connect request to those who strike your fancy.

When the Connect request is accepted by the other, you can engage in direct messaging with that person .